The two began dating after the finale and broke up several months later. A variation on this theme is the deflector: You try and express your anger or irritation regarding some issue or event - your spouse stays out with his/her friends two hours longer than they said they would and doesn’t even bother to call - and somehow your toxic partner finds a way to make this your fault. Value your partner and all that they do for you. 3. Don’t make any assumptions about your partner based on their race. Because an ebb and flow of psychic energy in their consciousness is normal, they understand its value and its drawbacks and often choose not to make anything special of it. No, though they will invariably make me do it. No, I fear crowds and also cannot afford to be arrested. No, I wouldn't care. The phrase is ''A light purse is a heavy curse.'' It means that having no money is a real problem. What it means is that over time you would have fallen into a way of being together that makes the dysfunction easier and more tolerable - a healthy adjustment to an unhealthy situation. You'll be able to bond over your journey to finding love and companionships and you'll be able to visit these people in the same place every day.